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	<title>Why Not Train A Child? &#187; adversarial relationship</title>
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		<title>Avoiding Adversarial Parenting</title>
		<link>http://whynottrainachild.com/2012/04/02/avoiding-adversarial-parenting/</link>
		<comments>http://whynottrainachild.com/2012/04/02/avoiding-adversarial-parenting/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2012 02:14:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hermana Linda</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Gentle Parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adversarial relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[co-operation]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Molly]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Molly explains Adversarial parenting and how to avoid it in What punitive is apart from spanking&#8230;. For your sharing convenience:TwitterFacebookemailPrintTumblrDiggdel.icio.usStumbleUponAdd to favoritesReddit]]></description>
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		<title>The Effects of Spanking Part 6 *Sensitive*</title>
		<link>http://whynottrainachild.com/2012/02/21/effects-of-spanking-part-6/</link>
		<comments>http://whynottrainachild.com/2012/02/21/effects-of-spanking-part-6/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 22:31:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steph</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Anti Spanking Arguments]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dr. Bruce Perry]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[(Part 1) (Part 2) (Part 3) (Part 4) (Part 5) In the last part of this series we saw how teaching children to equate love with pain can cause them to become sadomasochistic.  We also saw how spanking children, even when done “lovingly” and the “right way,” causes many children to struggle with depression, guilt, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Responses to Pearl on Anderson</title>
		<link>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/12/05/responses-to-pearl/</link>
		<comments>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/12/05/responses-to-pearl/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2011 18:54:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hermana Linda</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Links about the Pearls]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adversarial relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Albert Bandura]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Anderson Cooper]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[dangerous advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deaths]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Abuse and Your Faith]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[experiment]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Moral disengagement]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Schatz]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[TV]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Under Much Grace]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I have yet to watch Michael Pearl and Elizabeth Esther on Anderson other than a few clips.  I hope to someday find it online in its entirely at which time I will certainly link.  By the way, it will be airing in the Los Angeles Area on FOX 11 at 1pm.   Meanwhile, here are [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Gentle Parenting Is More Than Just Not Spanking</title>
		<link>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/09/15/not-just-about-spanking/</link>
		<comments>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/09/15/not-just-about-spanking/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Sep 2011 16:18:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hermana Linda</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Gentle Parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adversarial relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dulce de Leche]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gentle discipline]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gentle parenting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[time outs]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://whynottrainachild.com/?p=3785</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Dulce de Leche looks at the punitive mindset and how it affects our relationships with our children in It&#8217;s Not Just About Spanking. For your sharing convenience:TwitterFacebookemailPrintTumblrDiggdel.icio.usStumbleUponAdd to favoritesReddit]]></description>
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		<title>Christians Who Don&#8217;t Spank and Why</title>
		<link>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/09/08/christians-who-dont-spank/</link>
		<comments>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/09/08/christians-who-dont-spank/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2011 17:18:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hermana Linda</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Anti Spanking Links]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adversarial relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[character of God]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dr. James Dobson]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gentleness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grace]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Hebrew]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[manipulation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[New Testament]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Not Just Cute]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Proverbs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rod]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[The Connected Christian Mom]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I came across 2 Christian bloggers who very eloquently explain why they don&#8217;t spank. Spanking…..The Post I Finally Had to Write and Spare the Rod: What Spanking Teaches Children by Amanda at Not Just Cute To spank or not to spank? by Raqual at Connected Christian Mom For your sharing convenience:TwitterFacebookemailPrintTumblrDiggdel.icio.usStumbleUponAdd to favoritesReddit]]></description>
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		<title>Fruits of Gentle Discipline</title>
		<link>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/06/29/fruits-of-gentle-discipline/</link>
		<comments>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/06/29/fruits-of-gentle-discipline/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2011 20:57:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hermana Linda</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Gentle Parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adversarial relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dulce de Leche]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fruit of the Spirit]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[motivation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[punishment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[punitive parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[testimony]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://whynottrainachild.com/?p=3292</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Dulce de Leche explains how she came to chose Gentle Discipline 7 years ago and examines the fruits of her decision in  7 Year Harvest. For your sharing convenience:TwitterFacebookemailPrintTumblrDiggdel.icio.usStumbleUponAdd to favoritesReddit]]></description>
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		<title>Understanding The Nature of Children</title>
		<link>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/04/16/nature-of-children/</link>
		<comments>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/04/16/nature-of-children/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2011 17:36:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hermana Linda</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Gentle Parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adversarial relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Discipleship Parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dulce de Leche]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gluesticks]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grace]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[infants]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[innocence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[kidney damage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lori Wick]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[meeting needs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[plastic plumber supply line]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[punishment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sin nature]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://whynottrainachild.com/?p=2813</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Discipleship Parenting writes about Understanding the Nature of Children in which she looks at what the Bible says about the nature of infants and children and what our response to them should be. Dulce de Leche also writes about the sin nature of babies in Sons of Adam Daughters of Eve. For your sharing convenience:TwitterFacebookemailPrintTumblrDiggdel.icio.usStumbleUponAdd [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Damaging Effects of Punishment on Children</title>
		<link>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/04/14/damaging-effects/</link>
		<comments>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/04/14/damaging-effects/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Apr 2011 18:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hermana Linda</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Anti Spanking Links]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Gentle Parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adversarial relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[contradictory advice]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[crying]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Defiance]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dr. James Dobson]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Pearls]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[The Five Love Languages for Kids]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://whynottrainachild.com/?p=2825</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[GreeneGem explains the damage  which was done to her by her mothers trampling on her Boundaries. Speaking of damage, did you know that when babies are left to cry it out, their little bodies are being flooded with Cortisol?   Discipleship Parenting looks at what  effect that has on them. Meanwhile Pearl, from An Apprenticeship in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Analyzing the Schatz Tragedy</title>
		<link>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/04/06/analyzing-schatz/</link>
		<comments>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/04/06/analyzing-schatz/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Apr 2011 17:32:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hermana Linda</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://whynottrainachild.com/?p=2767</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Cindy, from Under Much Grace, analyzes what causes people like Kevin and Elizabeth Schatz to harm their children in a new series: Why Good People Make Dangerous Choices (Pondering Pearl and Lydia Schatz) An Introduction Part I: Virtue In Place of Unquestioned Obedience. Part II: How Dehumanization (and Declaring War Against Family Members) Causes Moral [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Adversary or Advocate?</title>
		<link>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/04/02/adversary-or-advocate/</link>
		<comments>http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/04/02/adversary-or-advocate/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Apr 2011 20:10:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hermana Linda</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Gentle Parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adversarial relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advocate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dulce de Leche]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[impending doom]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[police officers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sally Clarkson]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This article by Sally Clarkson asks us to consider whether we want our children see us as Adversaries or Advocates. Along similar lines, Dulce de Leche writes about different ways of seeing God in Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God. For your sharing convenience:TwitterFacebookemailPrintTumblrDiggdel.icio.usStumbleUponAdd to favoritesReddit]]></description>
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