Ignoring Your Instincts?

God designed babies to be very needy and He gave mothers the instincts to attend to their baby’s needs.  This is why a baby’s cry affects mothers so negatively.  And yet mothers often try to squelch those instincts because a man has told them that their God given instincts were wrong.    For instance, Ezzo’s teachings have ruined many nursing relationships.  Check out this article from the Washington Post back in Feb 1999 about him which listed concerns pediatricians had about his teachings.

Even mothers who don’t buy into Ezzo’s teachings will often get convinced to allow their baby to “cry it out.”  Yet, back in 2005 a study was released that links prolonged crying in babies with lowered IQ points.  Crying has also been shown to cause undue stress in babies, risking their emotional health.  So, don’t ignore your instincts, pick your baby up and comfort him or her.  You cannot spoil a baby by holding him too much.

About Hermana Linda
Hermana means sister in Spanish and Linda is my name. I was born in late 1960 to a mother who had traveled around the world and had been impressed at the baby wearing she saw in Africa and Japan. While in Japan she purchased the baby carrier in which she is wearing me in my avatar. By the grace of God, I trusted Jesus as my personal savior in 1983. He gave me a husband in 1987 and 2 sons in the early 1990's. All glory to God.

Comments

  1. Angie says:

    I am about to begin composing a post on the Ezzo/Babywise method and its damaging effects; I would greatly appreciate your insight, resources, and recommendations.

    Thanks as usual. 🙂

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